Integrity
Having the highest morals and beliefs; being sincere, trustworthy and honest without compromise.
Roughly ten years ago, my youngest son was struggling with his performance in school and I was struggling with the proper way to motivate a child whose learning style did not really fit with the standard sit in class and recite back what you have read or been told. I was trying to teach him the value of doing a thing because it is the right thing to do.
I asked him to read a book and write an essay on it called “The Four Agreements” by Don Miguel Ruiz. The Four Agreements is based on the Toltec wisdom as handed down to Don Miguel Ruiz by his family. They are:
Be impeccable in your word
Don’t take anything personally
Don’t make assumptions
Always do your best
Obviously I out him back into the same situation he was facing at school. Ugh. Well anyway, my intent was to help him discover his own integrity. Of doing a thing because it is the right thing to do no matter the consequences.
We have those agreements posted on our company bulleting board (it is the same as the family bulleting board in other words the fridge).
We do not always find them an easy course to navigate especially when we are in a situation where we have to tell a client something they do not want to hear or how we did not live up to our commitments. But living with this core value allows us to look the folks we work with and for in the eye and to say what we mean. Our integrity assures folks that we will do what we say.
One of the greatest complements that my son ever paid me, I am sure, he did without realizing it. I was reflecting with him one day on the way to school that I was grateful that he had put forth the effort and done the work required because I was not looking forward to enforcing the consequences that would have resulted from him not following through. However, I said, “I would have enforced those consequences”. He said to me “I know Dad; you always do what you say”. We live up to that ideal each day when we work with our clients.

